As hard as it may be, giving your toddler more independence could be a boon for both of you. She'll learn faster, gain self-confidence and be more comfortable on her own. Here are some techniques: Let her make her own decisions (within limits, of course), such as what to wear. Find chores she can help with, like folding towels or putting away the silverware. Whenever possible, let her do things her way, even if it takes longer. Ease separation anxiety by reassuring her you'll be back and gradually increasing the time you're away.

 

Source:
“Help Your Child Become More Independent,” http://www.babycenter.com/0_help-your-child-become-more-independent_11736.bc